long lost memories

There was a crooked man and he walked a crooked mile,

He found a crooked sixpence upon a crooked stile.

He bought a crooked cat, which caught a crooked mouse.

And they all lived together in a little crooked house.

a day of pride

only two days after the astonishingly well-went birthday bash, came the glorious passing out parade, otherwise known as the P-O-P wheee.

i proudly present to you all, (ex)Recruit Yong, now preferred to be titled THE OCIFFER.

(and no, there is no typo error there)

but i must say i am crazy proud of my little ociffer, despite those words never said aloud.

way-to-go jav!

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11th March 2007

also known as, my boyfriend's birthday.

as always, i am too lazy to recount the events that jam-packed his short weekend bookout

so here are the photos of his surprise birthday party taken from michy. (:

i wish i had brought my digicam with us to the italian restaurant that overlooked the sea the night before. but too bad! i guess that is a memory only jav and i share. ha ha.

ah well, without further adooo,

pictures HERE.

PS. zonghao and jav have VERY white teeth. so beware, put your sunglasses on if you must.

faith like a child.

I know how much I need you now
The time is turning back somehow
As soon as our hearts and souls unite
I know for sure we'll get the feeling right

This time we'll chase all the rain away
Welcome home my lover and friend

Mcdreamy is mine.

MANCANDY: Justin Chambers, Patrick Dempsey & Eric Dane.

CHIC-CANDY: Kate Walsh, Ellen Pompeo & Katherine Heigl

another reason to watch grey's.

drool.

(:

pop goes my heart

These precious moments, we have so few.

behind blue eyes;

people who havent watched grey's anatomy, should watch it.

especially if you feel that life sucks.
like how you listen to a sad song to beat your crappy day.

you can cry your heart out watching it, yet, at the same time,
it can make you laugh out loud.
as if the characters in the show are real, leading their crappy lives,
just like you.

then suddenly, life doesnt seem so bad anymore.
because we're all going through it together,
that's what makes it worthwhile.

and at the end of the day,
it's about the people who love you
and the people you want to stay close to -
who matter.

maybe pain is there, for a reason.

sweet escape

If I could escape & recreate a place that's my own world

& I could be your favourite girl forever,

Perfectly together

Tell me boy now wouldn't that be sweet?

Boys stink, throw rocks at them.

Some men think monogamy is what furniture is made of.

Insights into a male brain (or the lack thereof).

Promiscuity is wired into a man's brain and is a legacy of his evoluntionary past. Throughout human history, wars greatly diminished the numbers of men so it made sense to add to the size of the tribe as often as possible. The number of men returning from battle was usually lower than at the start. This meant that there was always a large number of widows, so creating a harem for the returning males was an effective survival strategy for the tribe. This is the way it was for hundreds of years. In addition, modern man is still equipped with a large hypothalamus (centre in your brain for sex) and enormous amounts of testosterone to fulfil his ancient urge to procreate. The reality is that men, like most primates and other mammals, are not biologically inclined to complete monogamy (Sad bitter truth Part I).

It has to be understood however, that in discussing men's urge to be promiscuous, we are talking about biological inclinations. We are not providing men with excuse for infidelity.

e.g. The brain circuitry of a moth gives it an instinctive attraction towards bright lights and this allows the moth to navigate at night using the stars and moon. Unfortunately, the modern moth is also living in a world that is dramatically different to the one in which it evolved. We now have moth and mosquito zappers. By doing what is natural and instinctive, the modern moth flies into the zapper and is incinerated instantly.

In understanding their biological urges, modern man have a choice of avoiding self-incineration as a result of doing what comes naturally.

The Sad bitter truth (Part II).
A rooster is a very randy male bird which can copulate with hens almost incessantly, more than 60 times in a given mating. He cannot however, mate with the same hen more than five times in one day. By the sixth time, he completely loses interest and cant 'get it up' but, if presented with a new hen, he can mount her with the same enthusiasm he did with the first.
A ram will not mount the same ewe more than five times, but can continue to mount new ewes with tremendous zeal. Even when the ram's former sexual partnersare disguised with perfume or bags over their heads, the ram still cannot perform. You just can't fool them. This is natures's wary of ensuring that the male's seed is spread as widely as possible to ensure the survival of that species.
For healthy young men, that number is also around five. On a good day, he can have sex with the same woman five times but will usually fail to give a sixth encore. Introduce a new female however, and, like roosters and rams, his interest (along with parts of his anatomy) can ripidly rise.